"Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by what he says." — Carl Jung Our actions, attitudes, and emotional responses become the blueprint from which children develop their understanding of themselves, relationships, and the world around them.
Divorce can be emotionally overwhelming for children, even when parents try to minimise conflict and disruption. During times of uncertainty, children need reassurance, stability, and emotional support to help them feel safe and secure. At Kevin & Elise Fourie Counselling Psychologists, we understand that children often cope best when parents remain emotionally supportive, calm, and consistent throughout the transition.
Divorce is often one of the most emotionally challenging experiences a family can face. While parents are usually coping with their own stress, grief, and major life changes, children are also trying to understand what is happening and what it means for their future.At Kevin & Elise Fourie Counselling Psychologists, we understand that divorce affects the entire family system - especially children who may not yet have the emotional tools to process such a major transition.
Every parent wants to protect their child from disappointment, struggle, and failure. It is natural to want to step in when your child is hurting or facing something difficult. But sometimes, in trying to make life easier for children, parents may accidentally make it harder for them to grow. This pattern is often called “snowplow parenting.”
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where one person manipulates another into doubting their perceptions and experiences. It can happen in romantic relationships, families, friendships, workplaces, and even professional settings.
Sleep is essential for both mental and physical wellbeing. Chronic sleep problems are linked with increased stress, lowered mood, decreased concentration, and even long-term health issues. How to Quiet Your Mind and Sleep Better
Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions worldwide, yet it remains surrounded by misconceptions that can prevent people from seeking the help they need. Here, we separate myths from facts to provide a clearer picture of what depression really is.
What truly shapes a meaningful life are often the small, everyday moments that reflect connection, presence, and intentional living. Here are four “little things” that may seem ordinary now - but are likely to matter far more to you in 40 years’ time.
Marriage counselling (also called couples therapy) offers a safe, structured space to understand these challenges and rebuild a healthier, more connected partnership. Whether you are repairing after conflict, strengthening your bond, or navigating major life transitions, professional guidance can make a profound difference.
Confidence and connection are two of the most important ingredients for emotional well-being - and they’re deeply intertwined. When we connect with others, we often feel more grounded, capable, and valued. Likewise, when we nurture inner confidence, our relationships naturally become richer and more authentic.
With more than 30 years of experience each, Kevin & Elise Fourie use a wide variety of therapeutic approaches and techniques.
